The Carpenter's Stool | Series 8.11 - Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance

Episode 11

The Carpenter's Stool | Series 8.11

Published on: 25th July, 2022

How sturdy is your three-legged stool of life?

  • So it's easy to get caught up with all the fun or demanding elements of daily life. (02:19)
  • Our goals for happiness sit on the top of these three legs, they're cashflow, insurance protection and investment strategy. (02:49)
  • If one of them is neglected or not given the full attention as the others, we put ourselves in a position of having some potential problems. (02:57)

Quote of the episode: "So build yourself a proper stool, or find a mindful carpenter out there in the form of a financial advisor to build one for you." (03:28)

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., and Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, an SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA/SIPC. TFS Securities, Inc., is located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.

Transcript
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Welcome to the Enjoy More 30s Family Finance

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podcast. The only podcast dedicated to making life more

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enjoyable for young families by hitting on the financial topics

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that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus

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from simply enjoying life.

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Hello, welcome you are right back here at the Enjoy

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More 30s Family Finance podcast with our series, The Financial

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Parables of Your Life. As you are probably very much

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accustomed to, we are going through a different story or

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parable or fable or one of those every week. Some you're probably

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familiar with this week, maybe not. This one is a little bit

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more created for you. Because just overall stories are better.

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I can go on and on about standard deviation and expected

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returns but a story about an animal and some guy will

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probably be way easy for you to keep in your head. As always,

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before I began, please share please like, leave those

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reviews. I would really love if I could reach and help as many

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young families out there that are probably very similar to

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you.

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So today please join me for our story, The Carpenter's Stool. A

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young man started an apprenticeship with the famed

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carpenter in town. He was filled with excitement at the prospect

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of learning from a master. The carpenter was physically older

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than his years, and his back was very poor so the young man was

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fortunate for the opportunity to learn from him. Every day when

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he came home, his father would ask him what he learned. One day

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he might say carving, or joinery or finish work. Each lesson was

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more marvelous than the last. "Take note", the father would

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always say, "of all he has to teach you." Some time went by

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and the young man completed his apprenticeship. He was now ready

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to set out on his own as a carpenter himself. "You have

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learned so much at the hand of the master carpenter. What great

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project will you take on first?" his father asked him, young man

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answered without hesitation. "A proper stool to take care of my

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So it's easy to get caught up with all the fun or demanding

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elements of daily life. The carving, the joinery, the finish

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work to make it look beautiful. In real life, maybe soccer

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practice, trips to the beach, that deadline that you know is

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always coming up at work. So too often we forget to take care of

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that stool that we're sitting on to do all of that. That stool,

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that's our foundation. The financial stool has three legs,

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just like the carpenter's would. A strong triangle base. Our

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goals for happiness sit on the top of these three legs, they're

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cashflow, insurance protection and investment strategy. If one

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of them is neglected or not given the full attention as the

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others, we put ourselves in a position of having some

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potential problems. Investments may be the most fun to talk

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about. I mean, budgeting and insurance against dying aren't

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exactly dinner conversation points. But all are really,

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really important to a healthy and stable financial situation

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for your goals to be sitting on. If the investment leg is longer

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than the other ones. If the other ones are falling apart.

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It's not going to be a solid stool. So build yourself a

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proper stool, or find a mindful carpenter out there in the form

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of a financial advisor to build one for you. That way your

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family and you have something to sit on and put your goals on.

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Thanks for tuning in today and join us for next week's episode,

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The Lion and the Mouse. I hope you enjoyed today's story.

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Please remember to review, to share, to like to do all that

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great stuff. And if you need any other help, don't hesitate in

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reaching out. I probably have helped someone just like you.

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Until next week. Thanks for joining me today and I look

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forward to connecting with you again soon.

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back."

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The conversations on this show are

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Joe's opinions and provided for general information purposes

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only. They do not constitute accounting, legal, tax, or other

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professional advice for your specific situation. You should

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always seek appropriate advice from a financial advisor,

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accountant, lawyer, or other professional before acting upon

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any content or information found here first. Joe is affiliated

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with New Horizons Wealth Management LLC, a branch office

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of TFS Securities, Inc., and TFS Advisory Services an SEC

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Registered Investment Advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC.

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About the Podcast

Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance
Family Finance for Young Professionals.
Young families receive little to no personal finance help. We all grow up to have jobs and money, yet our education system focuses on Shakespeare and Algebra. Even professional advice can be hard to come by, with the majority of the industry chasing retirees and existing wealth.

Joe Okaly's podcast is aiming to change this, providing personal financial advice geared specifically to professionals with young families. This podcast is dedicated to making life more enjoyable for young families, by hitting on the financial topics that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus from simply enjoying life.

Joseph P Okaly is a CFP Certified Financial Advisor who fits directly in with who this podcast is focused on - a young professional with a family. With over a decade of experience as an advisor, there is passion and knowledge to make a difference.

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, a SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA / SIPC. TFS Securities, Inc. located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.