The Empty Boat | Series 8.7 - Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance

Episode 7

The Empty Boat | Series 8.7

Published on: 27th June, 2022

Accidents will happen in life so captain your ship or at least hire one!

  • "Yes", he replied, "the boat went past me first on its way towards you." "You were lucky it missed you. I wasn't so lucky." "Well," said the newcomer, "I saw that it might hit me so I moved out of the way." (01:51)
  • Empty boats in the way of a job loss to a car accident to a house fire to a fall down the stairs, it can all hit us when we're unaware. (02:28)
  • By planning for these occurrences though ahead of time, we can avoid our boat being wrecked, even if we can't always avoid it being hit. (02:38)

Quote for the episode: "And in all of it by having a plan we're picking up our heads and we're looking upstream and we're ready with an oar in our hand to try to get out of the way." (03:07)

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., and Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, an SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA/SIPC. TFS Securities, Inc., is located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.

Transcript
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Welcome to the Enjoy More 30s Family Finance

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podcast. The only podcast dedicated to making life more

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enjoyable for young families by hitting on the financial topics

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that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus

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from simply enjoying life.

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Hello again, we are here on the Enjoy More 30s

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Family Finance podcast talking to you about The Financial

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Parables of Your Life. We're talking about stories that

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you've heard before, but just an altered version of them with a

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financial twist. Because you know, stories are easier to

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remember so that way these things have a better chance of

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sticking with you in your day to day life. As always, before I

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begin, please share please like please leave reviews. I'd love

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to reach and help as many young families out there that are just

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like you.

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So today please join me for our story, The Empty Boat. A man is

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enjoying himself on a river at dusk. He sees another boat

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coming down the river toward him. At first it seems so nice

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to him that another boat is enjoying the river on a nice

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summer evening. Then he realizes the boat is coming right towards

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him. Faster and faster. He begins to yell "Hey, hey, watch

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out for Pete's sake turn aside!", but the boat just comes

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right at him faster and faster. By this time he is standing up

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in his boat, screaming and shaking his fists. And then the

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boat smashes right into him. As he recovers from the shock, he

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stands up full of fury, only to look inside where he sees that

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it's an empty boat. As he stood in disbelief, another boat also

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from down the river came alongside him. "Did you see

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that?" the furious man asked to the newcomer. "Yes", he replied,

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"the boat went past me first on its way towards you." "You were

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lucky it missed you. I wasn't so lucky." "Well," said the

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newcomer, "I saw that it might hit me so I moved out of the

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way."

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In life, there are lots and lots of empty boats on our river. We

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would like to think that everything is as it should be,

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that all boats have responsible captains, that everything is in

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control, but life if we are being honest with ourselves, we

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know it doesn't work that way. Empty boats in the way of a job

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loss to a car accident to a house fire to a fall down the

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stairs, it can all hit us when we're unaware. By planning for

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these occurrences though ahead of time, we can avoid our boat

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being wrecked, even if we can't always avoid it being hit.

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Proper life insurance, for example will allow your family

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to carry on financially if you're not here. Proper

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disability insurance will allow you to not become a burden on

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those you care about most. Proper liability coverage like

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through an umbrella policy won't let maybe an honest mistake turn

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into financial ruin. And in all of it by having a plan we're

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picking up our heads and we're looking upstream and we're ready

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with an oar in our hand to try to get out of the way. Or at the

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very least we're hiring maybe a captain to look upstream on our

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behalf.

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Thanks for tuning in today and join us for next week's story

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The Master Heron. A heron is an Ygritte stork like kind of a

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bird if you're wondering, I was a little bit there. So anyway, I

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hope you enjoyed today's story. Please remember to review and

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share for others. And if you need any help, don't hesitate in

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reaching out. I probably have helped someone just like you.

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Until next week. Thanks for joining me today and I look

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forward to connecting with you again soon.

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The conversations on this show are

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Joe's opinions and provided for general information purposes

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only. They do not constitute accounting, legal, tax, or other

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professional advice for your specific situation. You should

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always seek appropriate advice from a financial advisor,

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accountant, lawyer, or other professional before acting upon

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any content or information found here first. Joe is affiliated

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with New Horizons Wealth Management LLC, a branch office

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of TFS Securities Inc., and TFS Advisory Services an SEC

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Registered Investment Advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC.

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About the Podcast

Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance
Family Finance for Young Professionals.
Young families receive little to no personal finance help. We all grow up to have jobs and money, yet our education system focuses on Shakespeare and Algebra. Even professional advice can be hard to come by, with the majority of the industry chasing retirees and existing wealth.

Joe Okaly's podcast is aiming to change this, providing personal financial advice geared specifically to professionals with young families. This podcast is dedicated to making life more enjoyable for young families, by hitting on the financial topics that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus from simply enjoying life.

Joseph P Okaly is a CFP Certified Financial Advisor who fits directly in with who this podcast is focused on - a young professional with a family. With over a decade of experience as an advisor, there is passion and knowledge to make a difference.

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, a SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA / SIPC. TFS Securities, Inc. located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.