Your Home Isn't An Investment | Series 4.5 - Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance

Episode 5

Your Home Isn't An Investment | Series 4.5

Published on: 9th August, 2021

Your home is different than a real estate investment - learn how and why!

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., and Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, an SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA / SIPC. TFS Securities, Inc. is located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.

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Welcome to the EnjoyMore30s Family Finance

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podcast. The only podcast dedicated to making life more

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enjoyable for young families by hitting on the financial topics

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that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus

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from simply enjoying life.

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Hello, and welcome to the fifth episode of The Your

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Major Money Misnomers series. As always, if you like what you're

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other young families out there. Last week, we discussed Schedule

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Goals, Achieve Goals to help you better understand how most

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people incorrectly connect goals solely with pass or fail, and

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how changing our mindset to be using goals to instead give

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ourselves a better opportunity in moving forward to some degree

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in a better direction can really produce great benefits, real

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tangible results. So check that out if you haven't already.

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Today, we are discussing your home, the American dream, right?

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But specifically why in most cases, you should not be looking

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at your home as an investment, despite what you likely have

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heard to this point in your life. We're going to discuss

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what you need to know about what really kind of needs to be true

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to define something as an investment, and what you can do

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in changing your mental approach to avoid some potential negative

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consequences as a result of that traditional mindset. Now, when I

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was younger, I hated orange juice, that acidic taste or

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whatever you would call it just was not for me never enjoyed it

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or anything like that. Growing up, though, it was kind of

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always touted or at least that's how I interpreted it as a health

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kind of a drink more or less. Yeah, there's all this vitamin C

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in it, and so on and so forth. So I looked at it as like, oh,

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if you drink orange juice, you're being healthy. Now I can

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picture kids in the commercials drinking it and then afterwards,

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they have you know, that huge smile on their face because, you

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know, they they felt so healthy. And as such, I tried to force

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myself to drink it. Especially when I was sick thinking I was

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doing a really great job. In my adult life, it was pointed out

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to me that orange juice actually has the same amount of sugar

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content drop for drop as a can of soda. And you know, that was

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rather astounding to me. And now I drink water with a vitamin C

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supplement on the side, you know, even better. So if you

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think back, you can probably recall one food or another you

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thought was really good for you growing up that maybe you have,

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you know, changed opinions on down the road as you've grown

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up. So what you need to know is that viewing your home as an

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investment may sound like it makes perfect sense however, if

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you break it down in real terms, and they not exactly look that

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way. Now, you know, I'm not saying to not buy your own home.

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I'm a homeowner. I'm just saying to adjust the way you're looking

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at it and the actual reasons for owning the home. To be an

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investment in just kind of the traditional or basic sense, you

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need to buy something today, have an expectation of it

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rising, and then lastly, an expectation of sometimes selling

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it in the future at that higher value. So you know, I buy ABC

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investment for retirement, I expect it to go up, then when I

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retire, I expect to sell it at that higher price to pay for my

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retirement. With a home if you're planning on living in

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that home long term, maybe forever, then that last part is

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not true. You have no real timeframe when you plan to sell

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it and actually realize a gain as a traditional investment

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would operate. You know, really, if you want to consider it an

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investment then it's an investment for your kids, as if

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you live there forever they are going to sell it after you're

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dead and gone and they will just realize the profits. Now if

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you're buying a real estate property today specifically

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because you think at some point in the future, it's going to go

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up and when that happens, you're going to sell it. So from the

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very start the sole purpose is making a profit, then that is a

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different story. I would agree then that is an investment.

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That's why I didn't say real estate isn't an investment. I

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said your home isn't an investment. You're likely living

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in your home, first and foremost, because it's what you

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feel is best for your family at this moment in time. And that is

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the focus and to me it should be the focus. Whether it be

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proximity to work, the school district for your kids, that is

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by far the biggest reason I'm sure why you're there. So number

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one is being your home. Whether you make money when it's sold 30

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years from now or not, I'm guessing is not your primary

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driver. Same thing if you purchase a second home, by a

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lake or the beach or up in the mountains. It's another place to

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go that your family will enjoy and that you will make great

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memories in. Again the primary driver is not appreciation and

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selling down the road to make a profit. So what you can do is

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adjust that initial mindset. A home is an expense and one that

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you're willing to take on for the lifestyle you want for your

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family. Where people get into trouble with having that home as

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an investment mentality is that it can often cause you to

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overextend yourself. Say you're looking at a home that is out of

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your price range. The realtor might say, "Yeah, but it's in a

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great area, it's up and com ng. It's a great investment for

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you and your family." And you get to thinking, 'hey, yeah, tha

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's true, you know, maybe I sho ld buy this home'. However, lik

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we just said, if you aren't pla ning on selling this house any

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ime soon, and the primary rea on isn't making a profit, the

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this makes it a home, not an nvestment. You will now be in

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situation maybe of having a lar e mortgage, you can't really aff

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rd maybe much less you can sav towards retirement or other goa

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s, or you know, maybe even a neg tive cash flow, potentially mak

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ng your overall financial sit ation worse, is not a good inv

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stment. Same thing goes for a s cond home. When we speak to cli

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nts about another home, if tha is one of their goals we go thr

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ugh if they can't afford the sec nd home, and or, you know how

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that will affect the other goa s and timelines we have alr

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ady laid out. Whether the hou e will appreciate or not, is not

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part of the decision pro ess. Again, it's a second hom

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, there's that word again, not an investment property.

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So a recap of today is that it's really important to mentally

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separate out a property that is your home for one that is an

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investment property. They are two different things. A home is

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where you choose to live with your family for that lifestyle.

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That's 99% of the reason for buying it. A real estate

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investment property is different in that you're buying it

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specifically to make a profit. The goal is appreciation to

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receive a profit. So when dealing with decisions for your

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home, make the primary focus on if it would make you happy, if

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you can afford to do it and if it will cause you to have to

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adjust any of your other goals by doing so. So not investment

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profits again. Now, I personally am happy to share that I plan on

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being on my in my home long term. So when we designed our

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kitchen, for example, we designed it for how we would

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make us the happiest, not what would have the highest resale

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value. So finally, be careful when dealing with home decisions

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to not overextend yourself based on it being you know, quote,

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unquote, a good investment. It just makes you financially

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stretched or unstable, then it's actually a bad investment pretty

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much every time.

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Thanks so much for tuning in today. As always, as we always

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say here at the end, if you're able to implement what we cover

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that is fantastic. You have less to worry about then before and

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we can focus more on just enjoying life. If you are

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wanting help with these things, or have questions you need help

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in clarifying, check out that Ask Joe section on the show's

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website www.enjoymore30s.com. That's enjoy more three zero s

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like you.

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The next episode is Long Term Disability...MORE Likely To

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Happen?, where we're going to break down what statistically is

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actually the more likely insurance you could need to have

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in place to protect your income and family. Until next week

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thanks for joining me today and I look forward to connecting

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with you again soon.

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The conversations on this show are

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Joe's opinions and provided for general information purposes

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only. They do not constitute accounting, legal tax or other

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professional advice for your specific situation. You should

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with New Horizons Wealth Management LLC, a branch office

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of TFS Securities, Inc., and TFS Advisory Services an SEC

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registered investment advisor member FINRA/SIPC.

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About the Podcast

Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance
Family Finance for Young Professionals.
Young families receive little to no personal finance help. We all grow up to have jobs and money, yet our education system focuses on Shakespeare and Algebra. Even professional advice can be hard to come by, with the majority of the industry chasing retirees and existing wealth.

Joe Okaly's podcast is aiming to change this, providing personal financial advice geared specifically to professionals with young families. This podcast is dedicated to making life more enjoyable for young families, by hitting on the financial topics that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus from simply enjoying life.

Joseph P Okaly is a CFP Certified Financial Advisor who fits directly in with who this podcast is focused on - a young professional with a family. With over a decade of experience as an advisor, there is passion and knowledge to make a difference.

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, a SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA / SIPC. TFS Securities, Inc. located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.